Letting go of the script changed everything. For years, I thought sex had to follow some flawless, cinematic formula — perfect lighting, perfect moves, perfect timing.

But real confidence arrived when I stopped chasing perfection and started embracing the messy, human side of intimacy. We laughed through awkward moments, talked openly about what worked (and what didn’t), and ditched the pressure to perform.

Pleasure isn’t always linear. The more honest I became, the more relaxed I felt — and that’s when everything truly clicked.